Tuesday, February 14, 2012
... throughout my career, i have found that to be the case. whether we are talking about petulant diners, or crazy-making bosses, i have always found that shit always becomes more hectic than it ever needed to be w/a hungry nigga in the mix. the energy - desperate/unfulfilled/survival mode isn't really good for much.
& when we are no longer speaking of mouth/stomach hunger but soul/gonad hunger? take that result & multiply it exponentially: horny niggas are the worst...
experiment with kissing first.
so happy valentine's day, lovies!!! this is the post i've been waiting for my damnself - since my lit-kitchen idol vertamae refused to give up the info on such things in vibration cooking - she said something like, '& i won't even get into those secret ingredients; either they won't work & y'all will be mad, or i'll end up on the list of house un-american activities...' i am paraphrasing...
still, that one line lit such a fire under my ass to find REAL aphrodisiacs, that it was w/a strong sense of acid-trippy-ness that i sat in the presence of my most devastatingly sexxxy grrrrrrl, who is now a trained tantrika (daughter/practitioner of the tantric arts), in the white tiger sect, as she broke down to me what foods open the gateway to nirvana. so without another moment of introduction, here it is, y'all, (w/the help of my sensuous sis, D)
then use your hands; feed each other
aphrodisiacs... a couple of questions, a couple of answers:
belly: do real aphrodisiacs exist?
sexxxy D: yes. They are real chemicals & stimulate natural substances in the brain - ones related to arousal. Some of the most potent ones are the ones that resemble genitalia: (Figs - I feel they look just like nut sacks, & that's true externally, but when dissected, my tantrika grrrrrl emphasized, they look more like female genitalia. "Clams then!" I exclaimed. Oysters, was the reply. Not only do they basically mirror the feminine genitalia, but the pheromones of the oysters are proven) b vitamins, found in oysters, for example, are essential to testosterone/estrogen production are what to look for when providing a sense igniting feast to your lover.
b: what is tantric food?
D: foods that activate the five senses foods & are designed to put you in an awareness of the five elements as they interact with your body. Sex is a creative force that moves throughout our bodies & feeds our emotions, our thoughts, creating feelings of desire.when we experience sexuality we experience it as raw, unrefined. this is how we want to think about food when we are trying to create a pleasurable sexual experience. it's very much about understanding the physical/spiritual balance w/our food & our sexual essence, so it goes much deeper than the physical. Sex happens whether we are aware of it or not. So the point is to raise the vibration to realize that however we get off, that the energy is a force that we need to learn to move it consciously throughout the body as a healer & a manifester. sexual energy is kidney related, so foods that positively affect our kidneys, positively affect our sex lives.
incorporate the touching while you do this: explore every sensation with your entire body/being
b: How does this relate to food?
D: 1 - Heart energy is directly connected to communication.
2 - Communication is directly manifested through the tongue. This is why food is a direct path to the heart, but but the heart is pumping that love energy to the brain, & the brain controls all. Aphrodisiacs are about working w/ the direct essence of sex - through the brain, which processes all sensation, including & especially those related to taste/smell.
b: How does the food we eat affect the energy that we connote to our partner?
D: 1 - the healthy function of our organs is directly connected to the healthy function of our genitalia. with chocolate, the love chemical dopamine is released when you eat it, as when you are peaking in orgasm - it is associated w/attraction/euphoria. so since food directly affects our energetic structure, the vibrations that this produces are what affect your partner.
in relation to this, & for your (erotic) pleasure, dear friends, i have for you today,
fondue for fornicators!
melt chocolate in a double boiler.
add cinnamon, cardamom, powdered rose petals, & honey
fruits are bananas -
& of course, figs
dip. paint. eat. feed. please. enjoy.
serve w/jasmine green tea, & champagne - the champagne & jasmine for the aphro qualities, the green tea for the much needed caffeine - if this goes the way it's supposed to, you'll be up all night -
really focus on the sensations of the textures on your skin in your mouth and then progress to eating off the body
& thank you for your time...